
Planning Ahead for Children: A Guide for Caregivers and Families
At Amy McGarry Law Office, PL, we believe planning for your children’s future means more than just legal paperwork- it’s about ensuring continuity of care, comfort, and support in any situation. When families prepare thoughtfully, they provide peace of mind for themselves and stability for their children.
Below is a guide to help parents and guardians organize essential information about their children, making it easier for future caregivers to step in confidently when needed.
Medical and Emergency Contacts
nclude your child’s doctors, dentists, and any specialists they regularly see. Be sure to list practice names and contact numbers. Add important emergency contacts, including Poison Control (1-800-222-1222), and keep this information readily accessible. Posting it in a visible location in your home is often helpful.
Identification and Health Records
Store your child’s birth certificate, Social Security card, passport, and adoption papers in a secure place. Keep detailed medical records, including immunizations, surgeries, chronic conditions, and any major health events. Be sure to note any life-threatening allergies or recurring health issues.
School and Activities
Record the name of your child’s school and a primary contact, such as a guidance counselor or front office number. Maintain copies of school forms, report cards, teacher communications, and class photos. Be sure to track extracurricular involvement such as sports, arts, or camps, especially if your children have varied interests.
Behavior, Routines, and Special Needs
Include information about your child’s personality and habits, such as bedtime routines, concentration tips, or warning signs of emotional distress. If your child has a diagnosed condition or special needs, include care instructions, therapies, or medical routines in one organized place. This guidance is especially critical for guardians who may not be familiar with day-to-day routines.
Organizing and Storing Information
We recommend maintaining both digital and physical records. Create a digital folder for each child with subfolders by year. For physical items like artwork or graded papers, keep a labeled storage box or binder. Cloud-based storage systems can also help keep everything easily shareable with trusted family members.
Dietary Needs and Preferences
Children’s eating habits can change quickly, so record any food allergies or extreme dislikes. While minor preferences may shift over time, noting trends and sensitivities helps caregivers provide comfort and consistency.
Friends and Social Networks
Maintain a current list of your child’s close friends and the best way to contact their parents. This is especially helpful during transitions, emergencies, or school breaks.
Minor Expenses
Track minor financial items like allowances, gifts, and other small purchases such as money from the Tooth Fairy. While not legally significant, these records help caregivers maintain routines.
General Interests and Comfort Items
List favorite activities, clothing preferences, toys, or personal comfort items. These small details can make a big difference in helping a child feel safe and supported during uncertain times.